How do you feel about last-minute dates? Does a late invitation mean spontaneity or disrespect? Earlier I was speaking with reader Madeleine, who was telling me about a date she’d been on this past weekend. Bo texted her at noon Sunday, saying, “Hey if you don’t have plans already, how about meeting up later? We could do drinks and dinner or a walk…” She said OK “even though it was last minute.” The date went really well, and she was glad she’d accepted.